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Bed Wetting can be a sign of child abuse.
- bikrscare
- Jan 12
- 2 min read
Yes, new or returning bedwetting (enuresis) in a previously toilet-trained child can be a sign of abuse (physical or sexual), but it's also common due to stress, medical issues like UTIs, or genetics, so it requires investigation by a doctor to rule out other causes before assuming abuse. It's a regression to earlier behaviors often seen with trauma, but needs context with other signs like unexplained injuries, fear, or behavioral changes.
Why Bedwetting Can Be a Sign of Abuse:
Emotional Regression: Trauma, anxiety, and stress from abuse can cause children to revert to younger behaviors like bedwetting, as a coping mechanism.
Behavioral Indicators: It often appears alongside other signs, such as:
Sudden fears (of specific people or places).
Changes in sleep (nightmares) or appetite.
Inappropriate sexual knowledge or behavior.
Difficulty walking/sitting or pain in genital areas (sexual abuse).
Sudden mood swings, withdrawal, or rage.
Other Common Causes of Bedwetting (Not Abuse):
Medical Conditions: Urinary tract infections (UTIs), diabetes, sleep apnea, or constipation.
Genetics: A family history of bedwetting increases the likelihood.
Stress & Anxiety: General stress can trigger it, even without abuse.
Developmental: Some children take longer to achieve nighttime dryness.
What to Do If You're Concerned:
See a Doctor: Rule out medical causes first, as many children have simple, non-abusive bedwetting.
Look for a Pattern: Note if bedwetting is part of a larger pattern of behavioral changes or unexplained physical issues.
Do Not Punish: Shaming or punishing a child for bedwetting is harmful and associated with depression.
Report Concerns: If you suspect abuse, contact child protective services or a hotline immediately, as it's crucial to ensure the child's safety.
Abuse Hotline
1-800-962-2873
Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-500-1119
Disaster Distress Helpline
1-800-985-5990
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